Recently read an article about a man, married for many years now to his wife, with whom he has a daughter, who confessed that he's secretly gay. He says he has been, ever since he was old enough to engage in relationships, and even his first sexual encounter was with a person of the same sex. His wife has no idea and as much as he loves his wife, he isn't sexually attracted to her in any way. It must be extremely difficult hiding your true emotions and feelings from people you love. Don't think I would be able to do the same.